13 Chinese customs that shock foreigners
"Much knowledge multiplies sorrow." We have already written more than once about the customs and traditions of the inhabitants of the Celestial Empire, which can easily cause a cultural shock. But this huge country is fraught with so many unusual and interesting things that we have another portion of shocking facts.
Respect the sticks, citizens!
American actress, star of "The Hunger Games" Jennifer Lawrence
After a delicious lunch, it's supposed to... burp
What is considered swinishness in many countries in China is a sign of gratitude to the owners and a special compliment to the cook!
In China, tea is drunk in small cups or bowls, and they should not be empty. By tradition, tea is constantly poured to the guests, and they tap their fingers on the table every time in gratitude.
Nowadays, you can knock with your fingertips.
Don't let it offend you — even the most desirable thing, according to Chinese rules of politeness, will be rejected several times. But you must insist: after a maximum of three refusals, your gift will be gladly accepted. (By the way, don't forget to politely refuse any presents yourself first).
It's okay to spit with gusto in public places
We know that too, don't we? But if in our homeland this vile habit gives out a very specific type of citizens, then there it is characteristic of everyone, including women.
Moreover, the Chinese spit not only on the sidewalk, but also from the windows of buses and trains, and sometimes even indoors.
In the largest Chinese province of Xinjiang, domestic geese are preferred to service dogs: they have excellent eyesight, they are noisy and, when necessary, aggressive. By the way, feathered law enforcement officers prevent a lot of thefts!
Police Goose Parade
In all regions inhabited by Tibetans, this gesture is considered rude. A person or an object should be pointed with the whole hand with the palm turned up and tightly compressed straight fingers.
Because in the eyes of the Chinese, this is a sign of vanity. So don't be surprised if, in response to praise for any reason, you get a protest, even an absurd one: "No, no, the food was terrible," "No, my child is stupid and unsympathetic," etc. It's just that modesty and humility are at the heart of Eastern culture, and boasting and complacency are condemned.
Recently, many city restaurants accept tips, having come to terms with the habits of Western tourists, but still for the Chinese, this money is not gratitude, but gross disrespect (reread paragraphs 4 and 8). An exception may be hotel employees and guides specially trained in Western (especially American) traditions.
The Chinese often ask foreigners to take pictures with them
Don't be surprised if walking in the park or sitting in a cafe, you will be the center of attention of locals who will want to take a selfie with you as a keepsake. And they will be happy if you ask for the same in return.
What is especially shocking is that a child can easily do his business in a public place. For example, sitting on a park bench.
This is not Brazil: these are the creepy bathers relaxing on the beaches of Qingdao
And it's okay in transport — they fall asleep in the most unusual places, taking the most bizarre poses. This habit has become so famous that there is even a special website Sleeping Chinese ("Sleeping Chinese"), where you can see their funny photos.
Can you imagine now what a really complicated thing it is - friendship between peoples?
Keywords: China | Chinese | Oddities | Traditions