The Science of Pleasure: how a British woman learned to reach orgasm after a week in a sex camp

Writer Fran Bushe (Fran Bushe) at the age of 30 decided to revive the intimate life and went to the sex camp. And her problems in this area of life began in July 2003, when she was 16. Then she lost her virginity and, despite the beautiful romantic setting and true love, Fran was very hurt. Since then, every time the girl had sex, the pain tore her apart. I couldn't reach an orgasm. To learn the science of pleasure, she joined an unusual organization, similar to a sex cult.

The British woman went to the doctors, but they just threw up their hands. Some suggested drinking a glass of wine to relax, others suggested having more sex, but it didn't help. Fran often had to fake an orgasm to avoid upsetting her partners in bed. Searches for an answer on the Internet also did not yield results. The methods she found were strange and quite dangerous. She even wrote a book called "My Broken Vagina", in which she openly shared with readers her intimate problems and the search for ways to solve them.

Nevertheless, Fran did not give up hope for the restoration of a normal sexual life. This prompted her to go to the sex camp. The unusual organization is located in a picturesque rural area. In fact, it was a festival, the main theme of which was the awareness and enhancement of one's own sexuality. During the week, 150 participants vividly discussed intimate issues in seminars and learned how to establish a connection between the body and sexual "juices".

When the writer arrived at the place, she saw people dancing, hugging and rejoicing like children. She was received very warmly. There were no strict rules here. The new participant was advised to go to the so-called "living room of love"as often as possible. Penetration sex was prohibited. At first, Fran was confused, but at various workshops and seminars, she realized that orgasm is achieved in many other ways.

At the hug training, the British woman learned about the cervical orgasm, at the sex energy classes-about how to have sex using her energy field. Basically, the workshops were held like this: women and men sat down opposite each other and rocked back and forth, imagining how their energy bits were connected in an act of love. Despite the fact that close physical contact did not occur, many received a real orgasm, as evidenced by the languid sighs that filled the space.

In another class, participants held hands and circled barefoot in time to the relaxing music. They touched each other, stroking their heads and moving down their bodies. It was exciting and ecstatic. Despite the fact that physical penetration was forbidden, Fran experienced real sexual pleasure for the first time in a long time. The writer could concentrate on her own feelings without fear of pain.

The girl realized that earlier in bed, she always put the needs and emotions of her partner first, and not her preferences. She was beaming as she left the sex camp. It was here that Fran realized that penetration was not the main thing in making love. Previously, she had ignored the meaning of touch, stimulation, and emotion.

Fran has learned to love her body. She advises never to ignore your intimate desires. Now the writer supports the spread of sexual education, especially among young people. It is necessary to expand people's ideas about sex, so that later many do not suffer from pain and dissatisfaction.

Sexual pleasure is very important for our body. Scientists have identified the 8 main health benefits of regular orgasms.