Men, be vigilant: 12 tricks that gloss teaches women

Tips for the stronger sex — how not to get "hooked". And recommendations to the weak sex — why you should not blindly believe the advice from magazines.

One of my last dates failed. During dinner, the girl vigorously stroked the stem of the glass. I was afraid for her. And what if the scabies starts like this? Then, in the taxi, she whispered something very passionately in my ear. I was scared again. But for myself. In particular, for his ear. Don't think that I'm all "scared". There was just an irritating artificiality about it. Quite a nice girl tried to charm so desperately and clumsily that it turned out quite the opposite. I was saddened. Since I know where the legs are growing from in this whole situation. On duty, I often monitor women's magazines. 

And I understand that a passionate whisper, erotic biting of the lips, furious winding of curls on the finger-often this is from there. Such tips are given to young ladies under headings like "15 proven ways to seduce a man". Girls believe gloss. They take methods into service. Alas. After that date, I decided to do a good deed for both men and women. The first to tell how to recognize in a girl a passion for advice on "hunting" for the stronger sex. And the second is to prove that in fact all this can look quite comical.

Trick 1. Laugh at all his jokes! (A shot from the film "The Diary of Bridget Jones")

For men. If a girl laughs at your bearded joke for five minutes in a row (well, something like "eat money right away"), she probably flatters you. And even if she really has a playful mood, and you have an order with a sense of humor, laughing without stopping should cause concern. Is everything exactly all right with your companion?

For girls. It is better to laugh when there is really a reason for it. There is another old saying about this. We like your laughter. It invigorates men, gives confidence in their abilities, defuses the situation. It is very important. But you should not overdo it.

Trick 2. "Shoot" with your eyes! (A shot from the movie "Sin City-2")

For men. Usually in women's magazines, even the algorithm for "shooting games" is given by the eyes. First, you need to look a man intently in the eyes for a few seconds. Then, with lightning speed, look away. And then look at it again. But already from under the eyelashes. Agree, some girls get it very exciting. And sometimes it seems that before you is a self-taught hypnotist. You really feel like a rabbit in front of a boa constrictor. It's not even funny here — it's scary. Even girls are advised how to make the look languid. It is necessary to look at a man, relaxing the upper eyelids. Again, some people get it quite organically. And others-as if they are ill. "Lift up my eyelids!" Br-r-r…

For girls. Our dear ones, you usually manage to establish visual contact that excites us even without these algorithms. But as soon as you start acting according to the pattern "forward, sideways, down, forward", the view loses the main thing — uniqueness. But the eyes are the mirror of the soul. We are glad to see a sincere interest in them. But not the instructions.

Trick 3. Drop something and pick it up erotically. (A shot from the movie "Heartbreakers")

For men. With the help of this trick, the girl usually tries to demonstrate her gorgeous legs. However, it is almost impossible to recognize whether she accidentally dropped the keys or did it on purpose. In both cases, a beautiful woman can raise them so beautifully that a man will be impressed by their grace.

For girls. Of course, if you have dropped something unspecially, it is better to pick it up with dignity, gracefully. But unnecessarily arching your back, waving your hair is clearly superfluous. This is more likely to make a man feel uncomfortable.

Trick 4. Stroke the stem of the glass with your fingers. (A shot from the movie "Sex and the City-2")

For men. If a girl is constantly stroking the stem of a glass with her fingers up and down, then she is trying to create erotic associations in your brain. If in moderation and to the place, then maybe it will work. But often it looks just vulgar.

For girls. Again — do not overdo it, please. Otherwise, you risk looking vulgar. It is unlikely that this is what you are trying to achieve.

Trick 5. Share his hobbies. (A shot from the movie "Pretty Woman")

For men. Sometimes a gentle creature asks to go to the sports bar with us and pretends to be very interested in the game of Real Madrid with Bayern. But in fact, he does not even understand what a penalty is. This is an attempt to share our hobbies. You can't blame her. Be lenient when a girl just rolls her eyes in response to your most primitive question from the world of sports. She tries to please you. It is better to simply explain that you do not see anything wrong with having some of your interests differ.

For girls. To be honest, not many men find attractive girls yelling "go-o-o-o-ol" in the sports bar. If you really like football, hockey, horse racing or fishing, then no problem. But it is by no means necessary to share men's interests. That's why they are men's. We like that we are different!

Trick 6. Try to eat something erotic in his presence. (A shot from the movie "Julie and Julia. We prepare happiness according to the recipe")

For men. As they say in women's magazines, this is another sure way to play on our associations. Hence the tips about sexual eating of bananas, chupa-chups, ice cream.

For girls. There is an anecdote: "The girl, in order not to seem easily accessible, ate a banana with a knife and fork on the first date." This is, of course, an extreme. But some people who love to eat especially erotically can achieve the opposite effect. And look frankly vulgar. At the same time, eating quickly and sloppily is also not the best option. The golden word is still a measure…

Trick 7. Be unpredictable and mysterious! (A shot from the movie "Fall in love with me if you dare")

For men. If a girl made a date for you and canceled it in 5 minutes without explaining the reasons, this does not always mean that she does not want to see you or that she really has urgent matters. Often young ladies do this to make us nervous and add a flair of mystery and unpredictability to themselves. So try inviting her again. Just warn me that you value your time. The same item is included if the girl mysteriously does not want to answer questions about her "affairs". Even if she has nothing to hide. It's just that women were taught that there should be a "mystery"in them. And those who have not found their own yet, they come up with it in every possible way.

For girls. Of course, it's great when a woman is full of surprises and riddles. But only if the surprises are pleasant, and the riddles are not fake. And also-I will tell you our secret: all girls for men are a priori riddles! So it is not necessary to spur a lack of understanding of the female nature.

Trick 8. Play with your hair, show off your neck. (A shot from the movie "Malena")

For men. Girls like to wind curls on their fingers, fix their hair. Some show playfulness in this way, others really preen up, others just found a way to occupy their hands. In any case, this is often a sign that you are being flirted with. Another gloss advises girls to show a man's neck. They say that this is the most vulnerable place on the body. And according to psychology, the girl allegedly demonstrates her trust in this way.

For girls. Quite harmless tricks. If in moderation, of course. If not — a man may get excited, why are you constantly rummaging in your hair.

Trick 9. Try to lower your voice, speak with a gasp. (A shot from the movie "Basic Instinct")

For men. For some reason, the girls were inspired that the guys are wildly excited by a voice with a hoarseness. And also-gasps, sighs, hot whispers in your ear. Therefore, when girls specifically try to lower their voice or make gentle sighs, you know that you really charmed them.

For girls. In fact, we like different voices. Both low and sonorous. Rather, it is important that the girls do not swear and do not say "calling". It's better to keep an eye on this. And in an intimate setting, the voice itself will become lower, sexier. There is no need for inventions here. And the falseness in the voice is unpleasant, it will only push you away.

Trick 10. Say on the phone that you are lying in the bathroom. (A shot from the movie "Only girls in jazz")

For men. Oh, how often we can't call a girl for hours. And then we hear that she was in the shower all this time. In most cases, this is true. But women's magazines also teach this. Girls are also advised that if the chosen one's call found her at home, it's not a bad idea to inflame his imagination with some intimate details. For example, to say that you are lying in the bathroom, among the foam. Or that you just got out of the shower and are looking for a body cream. Or "just now" you put on stockings.

For girls. A rather harmless trick. But still, maybe we can do without lying in a relationship? Even so innocent…

Trick 11. Ask a man for help and praise him loudly. (A shot from the movie "Overboard")

For men. Surely you have already understood: the weaker sex is not so weak as it wants to seem. How do those millions of women who live by themselves open jars of jam? That's the same thing. But as soon as a man appears on the horizon of a girl who has read magazines, she immediately forgets how to cope with half of the household chores. And this is not bad at all. After all, this is the easiest way for a man to earn his minute of fame. Did you open a jar? A hero, he did not let me starve to death. Did you change the light bulb? Here's a medal for you. It all works very well. And, perhaps, it is mutually beneficial for both sexes. But again — everything is fine in moderation.

For girls. A man likes to help a woman. This is a fact. The man is happy with your praises. This is another fact. But sometimes it feels that the request is far-fetched, and the raptures are exaggerated. And we are against falsehood in relationships, you remember?

Trick 12. "Mirror" the man! (A shot from the movie "My boyfriend is a psycho")

For men. Many magazines teach girls: to please a man, become his reflection. To do this, it is advised to imperceptibly copy the poses, manners, expressions of the chosen one. Therefore, if by the end of the first date you note that you have spoken to a girl in the same language, this does not always mean a complete resonance of souls. Perhaps she just "mirrors" you. Psychologists know that we don't like anyone as much as we like ourselves. And smart young ladies are happy to use it.

For girls. Someone manages to" mirror " subtly and imperceptibly, and for someone this attempt is like mimicking. But even if the trick was successful, then the question is not about a sense of proportion, as in most other points. Here, rather, it should be unpleasant for the woman herself that a man will fall in love not with her, but with his reflection (remember about Narcissus, right?). You will not be able to copy the chosen one all the time. Therefore, relationships built on this trick are almost always doomed to problems. It's better to be yourself, isn't it?

Request. The first, the only, the main one. (A shot from the movie "The best in me")

To sum up, men are not at all against all sorts of female tricks. We really love your flirting, coquetry, subtle seduction. But only if it's all organic, in moderation, without falseness. Therefore, girls should not blindly trust the advice from magazines and the web. The coquette lives in every woman. But how I want it to be unique, and not forced according to the instructions! Naturalness, sincerity of sympathies, self-sufficiency-these are, perhaps, the main weapons of seduction. And this applies to both sexes. I wish you all love — sincere, tender, dizzying!