7 clear signs that you have contacted the wrong man

Sometimes it happens that people have been trying to build relationships for years, but in the end they realize that they just chose the wrong partner for this. Psychotherapist Veronika Sysoeva shared "life hacks" that will help women save time and immediately recognize the "wrong" person.

Here are at least 7 signs indicating that you have contacted the wrong man.

Very often, at the beginning of a relationship, the veil of love covers women's eyes and they do not even notice the obvious "bells" that signal not in favor of their partners. For example, rare meetings and communication. Let's be honest: if a man really wants to build a relationship with a woman, he will find time for a date, not to mention to allocate at least a couple of minutes a day and call! There is no need to justify his indifference with high employment.

Naturally, each person has their own life values and priorities. For someone it is important to build a career, someone is busy with self-development and spiritual enlightenment, and for someone the main thing is family. And it is not at all necessary that you be in your partner's first place, especially at the beginning of a relationship. But you shouldn't be at the very end of the list either. With proper time allocation, you can easily combine business, self-development, and pastime with your loved one. If, of course, a man needs it…

And again about indifference. If for each of your wishes or questions you hear: "I don't care", "Do as you want", "You know better", think about it: is this person really interested in a relationship? Usually, men who see a woman as a future wife and mother of their children behave differently. They try to understand her needs, support and help. Indifference and lack of any care indicate that a man does not really care.

It is not for nothing that Omar Khayyam claimed that "even flaws are liked in a loved one, and even virtues are annoying in an unloved one." All right. Therefore, if your man makes too many claims against you, constantly criticizes and expresses his dissatisfaction, even in small things, ask yourself: is this exactly your man? A person interested in a common future would not risk it for some trifle. Especially, it concerns the appearance. If a man asks you to lose weight, change your haircut or image - do not hesitate to leave him.

Sometimes it happens that a person seems to suit you in everything: he is good, smart, caring, shows signs of attention… But at the same time, communication with him constantly causes internal discomfort. Familiar? Well, this is a clear sign that this is just "not your person." When a partner really suits you, time with him passes easily and naturally, and you want to continue communication, and not run away as soon as possible.

If you really love a person, then you accept him as he is, with all his peculiarities and shortcomings. Of course, you also accept his hobby, whether it's riding a mountain bike or creating miniature food from polymer clay. When a man condemns a woman's hobbies, ridicules them or asks them to give up a particular occupation, it means that he is not particularly interested in what you like and what is important to you. For such a man, the main thing is that you do as he wants, and do not care about personal boundaries.

So we have come to this important topic. Very often it happens that people seem to love each other, everything seems to be fine, but as soon as it comes to serious relationships, the "spell" suddenly collapses. If a man expresses an unwillingness to plan something, avoids talking about the future or escapes from them with the ordinary phrase "we'll wait and see", most likely, he does not need any serious relationship. Adults are used to solving cases "in an adult way".

It should be noted that not only men are "guilty of all sins." Earlier we have already talked about the alarms on the first date, which indicate that the girl is not suitable. According to psychologists and experts in the field of relationships, it is enough just to pay attention to these factors and it will immediately become clear whether it is worth continuing communication.