Why foreigners often divorce submissive and kawaii Japanese wives
Many believe that Japanese women are ideal wives, marriage with which will be happy, profitable, and calm for a man. The reason for this perception of these women lies in their desire to find stability, and a strong family, and their unwillingness to build a career on their own.
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1. These girls are really ready to be submissive and obedient wives, take care of family and life, and not demand anything extra from their spouses. However, why then, do more than 40% of international marriages end in divorce - according to official statistics?
Are Japanese wives so perfect, and what are their true shortcomings?
2. One of the important shortcomings of Japanese women is their desire to get as much money from their husbands as possible for a living. Japanese women sincerely believe that a man is a breadwinner in the family, and therefore they require full support from their husband.
At the same time, only a few Japanese girls are satisfied with the minimum amount for personal expenses. They believe that the husband is obliged to pay all their expenses, give expensive gifts, and provide for their parents. Moreover, the last condition for them is considered quite natural, not even requiring discussion, because in Japan it is accepted that the husband earns, and the wife manages the family budget.
3. This rule is so developed in Japan that many companies even transfer the spouse’s salary directly to the wife’s card, and she already decides how much money to give her husband for personal needs. Thus, submissive Japanese women can be called an expensive pleasure, and submissiveness is not expressed in all aspects of life.
The second reason for their shortcomings flows smoothly from the first. Family values in Japan are always in the first place, therefore, even if a Japanese woman agrees to leave her native land for the sake of her husband, then at any opportunity they will strive back because it is often difficult for them to adapt to a different life, which is radically different from Japanese traditions.
4. One of these traditions may seem unusual to a man in love, but it can cause irritation in ordinary family life. In Japan, it is considered fashionable to be infantile and look like children.
Therefore, many Japanese women deliberately clubfoot, like to talk in a childish voice, and stoop heavily to be more kawaii or cuter. Moreover, with age, this desire often remains, and not all modern men will want to appear in society with a clubfoot and stooping wife who will deliberately communicate in a childish voice and strive to be nice. Moreover, in addition to the voice, this desire is often expressed in clothes, manners, and unnatural affectation.
5. Thus, it should be noted that the appearance and cute behavior of a Japanese girl do not at all mean that she will become an ideal wife. Of course, such cases also happen, but it is better to know in advance about Japanese traditions in order to be prepared for what you can expect after marriage.
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