Wedding night in India and why the bride should get pregnant 1-2 months after the wedding
In modern society, the first wedding night has long ceased to have a sacred meaning. Most people live together long before the wedding, and some couples do not see the need to register a relationship at all. But some people still honor their traditions. And among them are individual peoples of India.
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1. After the wedding, it is not so easy for the groom to get into the bride's room, because there are numerous sisters of the newly-born spouse near the door. During the time they are "bargaining" with the groom, determining a ransom for the opportunity to get into his wife's bedroom, the girl manages to prepare for the wedding night.
The sisters literally occupy the territory near the room of the newly-made wife. This continues until the groom gives each of them a certain amount of money or a gift.
2. When the "ransom ceremony" ends, the girls still let the husband into the room with his lawful wife. Young people are finally left alone and can enjoy each other's company.
But this time is not only for comfort but first of all, for acquaintance. Since the tradition of choosing grooms and brides by parents is still relevant in India, sometimes the husband and wife hardly know each other.
3. And not all young people are ready to fulfill their marital duty, being practically strangers to each other. Therefore, sometimes on the first night, there is no intimacy between them.
4. After a close acquaintance, the bride and groom without fail leave the linen on which everything happened on the bed for at least a month. They do not wash it or change it, because this set is considered a symbol of fertility. Husband and wife believe that every night spent on this underwear will be as effective as possible.
According to traditional customs, a happy newly-made wife is waiting for conception in the first few weeks after marriage. Such "zeal" in the process of reproducing heirs is due not only to the desire of the newlyweds but also to parental claims.
5. Older relatives are always interested in the life of the young. If in the first few months, there is no news about the wife's pregnancy, then various unpleasant suspicions begin to spread around the family.
To prove their worth to the family, the newly-made husband and wife try to have their first child in the first years of marriage.
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