Sex life of Orthodox Jews: myths and reality
The life of Orthodox Jews surrounded by many myths and speculation. A considerable part of them belongs to the sphere of intimate life, which, if you believe the rumors, there are plenty of prohibitions and restrictions. But, as often happens, all is very strongly exaggerated and intimacy among the Hasidim is not Protocol and primly, as many imagine it. (Caution! Adult content).
In the life of an Orthodox Jew, strictly adhering to all laws of their faith, there are about 600 commandments, most of which relate to various restrictions. This fact was the reason for the rumours about that in bed the Hasidim stuck in a strict framework, and the full pleasures of sex available to them. Fortunately, it's just confusing.
It is no news that in Hasidic families are always a lot of children. This is despite the fact that their faith requires 12 days in the month to abstain from sex. Is remaining for the joys of sex the couple days use on all hundred. Jewish women also get much more than ladies of other Nations and faiths. This is due to the fact that the satisfaction of the couple of Hasidic Jews is one of the most important challenges facing the spouse.
Watching the Orthodox Jews in public places and on the streets, you can see that women are not accepted to shake hands and they generally try not to touch, thinking "unclean." But a man at home in the pile behaves quite differently and turns into a passionate stallion and his wife fully supports him in relation to sex.
In the Jewish tradition of intimate relations is given a lot of space. Husband, before you reach in the bed of the finale, required to maximally excite the wife and bring her to orgasm. If this rule is systematically violated, the woman has the right to demand through the rabbinical court for a divorce. Usually the dissatisfaction of women in sex is considered an important cause of the breakdown of marriage and such an action the court meets.
There are duties in bed and a woman. In particular, the wife must by all means to achieve excitation of the spouse before the sexual act, while not prohibited, and kisses in the most intimate parts of the body men. But the main rule of the intimate life the Talmud says is not the satisfaction of physiological needs, and the achievement of full spiritual unity of body and soul of the spouses.
While the prohibitions in the intimate sphere of the Jews-Orthodox enough, but most of them are not associated with married life. Strictly prohibited sodomy, kinship, bestiality, the relationship of a man with two sisters, group sex. There are unusual restrictions, for example, you cannot enter into a relationship with a woman sleeping or immediately after waking up men. In this case, the erection can be caused by nightly dreams that have no relation to the spiritual and physical proximity of the spouses.
It is forbidden to make love when you are watching other people... and Pets. Therefore, the Hasidim, intending to surrender to love, out doors, cats, dogs and even birds in cages. The baby can stay in parents room until, until you say the first word — after that any marital antics when it is invalid, even if the child is fast asleep.
The end of this period, preceded by a ritual washing of women in the mikveh — a specially equipped artificial pond. But after the break, the passion between the couple erupts with unprecedented force, so the abstinence in this case, there are undoubted benefits.
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