How men in love behave
The emergence of sympathy is a quivering feeling. And yes, from the word "tremble." Hormones rage so that a person begins to rush, worry and try hard to please the object of sighing, a feeling of euphoria sets in. I want to see the person again and again. In short, all these signs determine the behavior of a person in love. But let's go deeper and look at this topic from all angles.
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1. Signs of falling in love according to the men themselves
According to psychologists, a man in love can be calculated by several signs:
- He loses self-control;
- Even the "masters of life" behave unnaturally in the presence of a lady of interest to him and can talk all sorts of nonsense, joke rather stupidly;
- Starts to reflexively straighten clothes, hairstyle, tie
The representatives of the stronger sex themselves quite vividly describe their own demeanor in a state of falling in love:
They become attentive. Ready to look for a reason for "random" meetings, appearing in uncharacteristic places for themselves. You are more likely to meet in an elevator or a supermarket
They want to help. Inside a man in love, a real knight and gentleman wakes up, even if he did not shine with impeccable manners. He is ready to give up an evening with friends in order to help the object of his sympathy.
2. Attention to appearance. The representatives of the stronger sex have an increased desire to look better. If a man has changed in appearance since the time you met, this may mean that he really likes you. I call it "peacock instinct". Some guys start showing off in every possible way, start playing sports
Courage. The desire to protect and protect your chosen one from problems wakes up even among peaceful nerds
There will also be non-verbal signs. He will laugh at even the most unfortunate jokes, try to compliment, show jealousy, become more polite
Men themselves admit that they begin to behave like peacocks, trying to demonstrate all their best and strong qualities. He actively catches her every smile, look, and word and will try to spend as much time as possible around them. A man in love will look for any reason to casually touch a lady: help put on a coat, remove hair from his shoulder
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Is a narcissist or womanizer capable of sincere feelings? Protect the feelings of others, be faithful, and care for and appreciate other people's feelings. Unfortunately, no, these people are not capable of empathy. They can portray admiration, and feelings, and surround themselves with ostentatious care in order to provide themselves with a new victim. They are beautifully looked after, but it is very expensive to pay for such a relationship.
It is for this reason that it is not worth making hasty conclusions about nascent feelings. Beautiful deeds and words can only be an attempt by experienced players to set up networks in order to get a new victim. How to distinguish real feelings?
Generosity. Pleasant little things, gifts, souvenirs, flowers, and without any requirements to give something in return
Loyalty. A loving man will not try to get another, justifying this with natural polygamy or lack of obligations at this stage of the relationship's
openness. A man with serious intentions is not afraid to introduce his lady to relatives, and friends and is ready to meet her social circle
3. Narcissists can use all of these tricks to keep and gain control. True, they will not refuse to flirt with other women, always being in search of the best option. Most often, the feelings of a narcissist last no more than six months. After that, he will be cold, aggressive, critical, devaluing, and withdrawn, and will begin to cause feelings of guilt.
What you definitely cannot expect from a narcissist is support in difficult times, sympathy, acceptance, respect, attention to other people's problems, willingness to compromise, and indulgence in shortcomings. Such a person will not share sincere feelings, fearing losing control over the situation. The narcissist's perceptions of love and behavior can change drastically and for no apparent reason.
How not to fall for tricks? Trust words less and pay more attention to actions, learn to read between the lines and even check if you can be loved not ideal, in a bad mood, and with baggage of sudden problems. Will the knight be ready to lend a helping hand and take on the burden of responsibility?
The sphere of feelings is a delicate matter, and at times it seems that men and women are creatures from different planets. But if you take a closer look, and learn to evaluate actions and words with a cold head, then it’s quite easy to draw the right conclusions.
Keywords: Men | Love behavior | Emergence | Euphoria | Signs determine | Feelings | Emotions | Men's love | Relationships | Hormones | Sympathy