Does a good leftist strengthen a marriage? The British woman claims that every woman needs an affair on the side
Many believe that cheating in a relationship is unacceptable. But there is an opinion that nothing can compare with the adrenaline when you secretly meet with a lover and are afraid that you will be caught.
Rachel Foster is convinced that every woman should have an affair on the side at least once in her life in order to feel sexy and desirable. She is sure that an affair will not only raise self-esteem, but also strengthen a permanent relationship. Find out what arguments in favor of infidelity leads a British woman, from our material.
According to the results of an online survey, more than a quarter of women who cheated on their partners feel more attractive, and 22% - younger. Rachel Foster, from Preston, is not surprised by the data. She has experienced the positive influence of an affair on the side and advises all ladies to take a lover. The British woman claims that fleeting affairs fill her with energy, youth and improve her appearance.
It all started four years ago. Rachel was in a stable relationship with James when a spark broke out between her and a married colleague in the office. At that time, the British woman was not going to change her boyfriend, but she felt that the passion between them gradually began to fade. Previously, her lover spoiled her, inviting her to dinner in chic restaurants, gave her flowers and surrounded her with affection and attention. Over time, everything went downhill, and the woman no longer felt as desirable as before. James spent his evenings either on the phone or playing games.
Rachel's confidence dropped to zero. She gained 13 kg, eating stress sweets. The British woman tried to talk to James, but he was increasingly closed.
Then the woman decided to put aside all doubts and spent a hot night with her colleague Andrew. Sex with him was so intense that Rachel was instantly charged with adrenaline and energy. The lovers began planning their next secret meetings. Going back to James's house after a date was hard enough, but the pleasure of making love to another man overcame the guilt.
The British woman carefully hid the traces of infidelity, and the prospect of being caught further fueled her passion. She met with Andrew whenever it was convenient, when it wasn't suspicious. Rachel put a password on her phone and set it to silent mode so that her boyfriend couldn't check her messages. The woman came up with various reasons to slip out of the house on a date with her lover in the evening.
The sex with Andrew was spontaneous and vivid. They made love in Rachel's house in broad daylight, in the backseat of his car, and in various hotels. Forbidden passion gave the British woman the opportunity to feel sexy and young again. Her lover constantly paid her compliments, which she really needed at that moment. The woman began to buy seductive underwear and try new poses in bed with a colleague, forgetting about the prohibitions.
The affair on the side lasted three months. Then Andrew reconciled with his wife, and the lovers stopped seeing each other. Rachel missed the endorphin rush, and her relationship with James was on the wane. Three months later, the British woman broke up with him after two years spent together. The boyfriend never found out about her infidelity, or simply did not show his suspicions. Perhaps he also had a mistress.
After the end of her relationship with James, Rachel didn't feel broken. A brief contact with Andrew showed that she deserved better. Now the British woman is 46 years old and the woman is still in search of her Only One. Despite the fact that Rachel hopes to meet a man who will make all her dreams come true, she does not rule out that she will again have an affair on the side.
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