Manifestation care about, or Why you should not wait for latecomers

Everyone knows people who are always late. They are struggling to stay fashionable use different time management methods and engaged in self-discipline, but it is repeated again and again. Every time the latecomers justified some good intentions and say that I didn't want to cause anyone discomfort. This problem is aggravating factor is the late people almost always someone has to wait.

It has long been noted that fans of the late nearly always arrive on time there where a precise schedule. They rarely late for planes, trains, and TV shows, as well you know, that thing with good intentions will not work, and no one will have to wait.

Why do we tolerate lateness other over and over again? It turns out, the thing is that in every interaction, we want to establish close contact to show respect for the ideas of another person and even make a contribution to his business. Therefore, we do not feel sorry some five minutes of your time to wait for someone lingers.

But we do it, wasting my time that is important and irreplaceable resource. You give a man 5-10 minutes of your time, thus expressing concern for the man, but he is unlikely to appreciate again and will go with you as well. Is there an alternative? Of course! You can always speak quietly and kindly: "I'm Sorry, our time is up".

It's clear that the overloaded truck — not the best way to transport gravel. Overloading your day taking care of other people who don't deserve her you don't appreciate, you become ineffective.

In the world there are phenomena that we can not cancel, for example, gravity, and time. They are what they are and we need to adjust for them. In order not to be late you need to do just one thing — time to hit the road and you have to remember that. Waiting for the stragglers, you disrespectful to the person you should meet up later, and in addition yourself experiencing stress.

Therefore if the person did not attend the meeting on time, just stand up and walk away. You will respect for such principles and is unlikely to be accused of something. There is nothing personal, just you value your time, respect other people and demand to be respected you. You transport that departs on time, without waiting for tarried.

In this case, there is one caveat — if we are talking about the personal life of someone you love, then wait as long as necessary. In this case, the expression of gentleness and generosity to late quite appropriate.