Below the belt: what men lie about during sex

The number of partners, the size of the dignity, and the duration of sexual intercourse are the most harmless deceptions of the stronger sex. From some lies and liars, ladies should stay away

We all tend to embellish ourselves in relationships and often lie to partners without malicious intent. Moreover, scientists say that women do it even more often than men. It's all to blame for our wild imagination and hypersensitivity: under the influence of emotions, ladies often wishful thinking. Men in this regard are more rational and prudent and usually deceive in order to achieve some goals. In sex, there are two such goals: to achieve a partner and leave a good impression. But the lies that men resort to are far from always harmless.

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1. Deception #1. "I don't remember her"

Do you really believe that a man can not remember his previous passion? This is OK if we are talking about one-time drunk sex. But if you are interested in a partner with whom your loved one spent a significant amount of time, then know that men in this case are not prone to amnesia. Most likely, he just wants to avoid unnecessary questions and is afraid to wake up a jealous lioness in you. On the other hand, do you really need to know how "it" he had before you?

2. Deception number 2. "You are the best"

Another way to avoid unnecessary questions and elegantly "shut your mouth" to your inner detective. Just do not flatter yourself and take your loved one's word for it. The probability that he really thinks so is 50:50 (at least, so the questionnaires of sexologists say). Another question is that he can not compare you with anyone and enjoy intimacy without the shadow of former partners near the bed. And you, with your questions, on the contrary, push the man to memories and thoughts.

3. Deception number 3. "We only had sex"

Usually, with these words, a man wants to show that his previous passion did not matter to him. “Only sex” means the absence of spiritual intimacy and any common interests. You can believe this if your partner is between 18 and 25 years old (at about this age, the stronger sex is still prone to hypersexuality). Older men become more selective in relationships. And in order for sex to happen (especially if it happened more than once), the partner simply had to attract him with something, in addition to her sexual attractiveness.

4. Deception number 4. "It's my first time"

Here we are not talking about the first sex in principle, but about sex in which something went wrong. Men perceive their “misfires” very painfully and are horrified to imagine what you will think now. Trying to hide behind such words, your partner seems to be asking for an advance. If you really care about him, don't laugh at his awkward attempt to explain the situation. It’s also not worth consoling with the words “it happens to everyone”. Your man only needed to think about this mysterious "everyone". Offer to rest and just lie down next to you, and after a while try again.

5. Deception number 5. "I can do many hours in a row"

Here it would be interesting to clarify what exactly your partner means. Are we talking about long foreplay, or directly about sexual intercourse? If you mean sex, then roll your lip: the average human intercourse lasts 10-15 minutes. After orgasm, a man has a refractory period, during which the muscle tissue is restored, and therefore is insensitive to arousal. So any macho can enter the next round only after a certain break.

6. Deception number 6. "I can not do it anymore"

If you have been together for many years, and sex is regular and predictable, this situation is the place to be. The partner gets used to a certain scenario, in which the final means "final - and on the side." Do not be offended and do not torment your loved one, but rather be patient and “take your own” the next night. If your relationship is at the peak of romanticism and sexuality, and then suddenly a man declares that he has “shot back”, this is a good reason to think - does your pleasure excite him?

7. Deception number 7. "I can't wear a condom"

What men just don’t go to, so as not to put on the ill-fated “elastic band”! You may be told about low sensitivity, your non-standard size, and even an allergy to latex. Listen carefully to all possible reasons and shake the noodles out of your ears. Refusing to have sex in a condom is a banal disrespect for a partner. There is not a single man in the world who could not enjoy wearing a condom. So respect yourself and insist on this rule. Or demand the result of an STD test instead, but at the same time, immediately clarify whether your loved one is ready for unexpected fatherhood.

8. Deception number 8. "I can't find test results"

Another wake-up call is not in favor of the reliability of your partner. Especially if he is one of those to whom a condom is "contraindicated". Insisting on unprotected sex, a man must lay out his only trump card: a fresh certificate that everything is in order with his sexual health. If the paper is irretrievably "lost", you basically don't care when he took the tests - even yesterday, even in a past life. End the evening with some light petting, and the next day take your sweetie to the lab.