4 main rules of sexting, or How not to be in a stupid situation because of the intimate correspondence

Once upon a time the flirting was inextricably linked with doubts, anxious expectations and disappointments. The man and the woman have an appointment, thoroughly preparing for, or were love letters. The second option was also very difficult, after all, meant long yearning, hoping for reciprocity...

Today everything happens faster — enough to send the target number in the message, with a photo, and then comes an alert that it is read, or even arrives an instant response. But there are some nuances, without complying with which you can get into stupid and very ugly history.

Each of the active of the Internet at least once received a message from an unknown man with indecent proposals, or even intimate photos. Many men call it a buzzword sexting, although nothing to do with this kind of communication is imposing his person has not.

Sexting, by definition is the correspondence of an intimate nature with a familiar man that happens by mutual agreement. Is it a sex game, fueled the interest of the partners or serving as a prelude to date. To confuse this form of communication with messages of inappropriate content sent by a stranger and, moreover, with dikika, in any case impossible.

Psychologists told about the rules of intimate communication should be followed in the correspondence, so as not to look stupid and not to create to themselves and others problems.

Before you start with the person correspondence in a very personal topics, and especially to share intimate photos, you need to carefully weigh all the "pros" and "cons". Whether to once again remind you that pictures that are designed for a single person, very often the assets of the masses.

Even if you don't consider yourself to be a celebrity, you most likely little will please, if your shots will be on the forum for perverts or even just in social networks. But they can use in the mercenary purposes, for example, for blackmail. Therefore, to start such a conversation is better with someone you trust.

Storage photographs of a personal nature, use only your own media. The materials can be kept in phone memory, on the hard drive of the laptop but in any case not on the cloud services. To communicate better in a special secret chats, which can now be created in some popular instant messengers.

In this secret chat you can set the function to delete images or text immediately after they have watched or read. But most importantly — in such chats could not save materials, and therefore they can become dangerous tools in the hands of detractors.

Sending a message to intimate content, be sure to verify that it is in the chat with the desired user. Your supervisor or dentist is unlikely to bring joy pictures of genitals or description of sexual fantasies. You need to follow and that photo accidentally went to the storis one of the social networks — it will fail the serious scale!

The working day is not the best time for sexting, whether you work in the office or remotely. The probability that the message will go "not there" or will accidentally read standing behind chief increases significantly. Not the best companion for sexting and alcohol — after drinking you can take the act, which then will bitterly regret.

You should not start an erotic chat or to do intimate shots at home, if the room is an outright mess, or someone may interfere. The hottest photo will have quite the opposite effect, if behind you is a pile of dirty Laundry, the cat to lick the crotch or discouraged grandmother with an iron.

And finally, it is worth Recalling that not all pictures are good for correspondence and not all inner thoughts can be summarized to the interlocutor. It's important to understand the degree of closeness of the person with whom you are going to communicate and if you are not too close, better to wait very revealing messages.