No mistresses! The psychologist called the 5 qualities of women that I would never leave a man
To keep near him a man, many women followed the classic pattern: "the Mistress in bed, the landlady in the kitchen, Queen in the guest." Very often they get disappointed because this method is non-working and beloved disappears along with a new passion. But women who never give up, still there. They possess five important qualities, which told the psychologist Andrei Nikolaev.
Even if a woman has one of these qualities, her man will think much before you go to the mistress, and if she has a full set of these advantages, she is not afraid of any rozluchnytsi. No matter if she's brunette or blonde, slim or curvy, romantic or hard — if it is inherent in this particular emotional type to leave her, do not want.
The woman self-esteem which develops sleep the basis of its own achievements and conquests, and not on someone else's opinion is not approved at the expense of men, not suppress it, and especially not competes with him in marriage. She doesn't know how to "cut" partner, but it is not necessary. Good self-esteem involves choosing a worthy husband, and the appropriate respectful relationships in the family.
Self-care is a consequence of good self-esteem. A woman remains attractive in any situation and at any age, with the partner she chooses a match for yourself. Many justify their unwillingness to monitor their appearance household chores, taking a lot of time, but you need to remember that this is not an excuse. No need to cook the borscht on the heels — just do it as you like but when the spouse is at work. And in his presence be always on top.
This is very valuable, providing an important impact on men's self-esteem. Representatives of the stronger sex most of your life you spend earning money and the woman should appreciate that. Attentions, surprises and gifts from her husband — all you have to thank. If the answer to men's actions follow only criticisms: not such a gift, why work all the time, bring enough money, then the satellite just fades away and is willing to go where they will be appreciated.
The ability to forgive some misunderstood. We are not talking about comprehensive forgiveness and a lot of patience, but the work on his emotional development. No one, even the happiest family can not do without quarrels. But wait pKa they will fade by themselves or"to lower on brakes" is not necessary.
Resentments tend to accumulate and sooner or later, come to you and hurt both partners. Psychologist Andrei Nikolaev sees the problem this way:
From all the above positive qualities that can be called critical. Very well, when a woman has their point of view, but leaves his companion right to have their own opinion on the matter. Very well when she says — "I am what network, and if you came into my life, deal with it. I, for my part, I will do the same."
This approach is very much a turn-on man — he tries to convince a woman to win over to their side. It's intriguing and makes life together interesting. The value of such halves for the spouse increases enormously and this is what many used to call "highlight".
In family life you live with a real person who has their views on things and, of course, disadvantages. So before you tie the knot the long haul, it is better to live together, look, understood, whether it's your people or just a random guy in your life.
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