54-year-old British woman who seduced more than 250 younger men gives advice
This 54-year-old woman is considered the main "predator" of the UK. Businesswoman Junie Smith has dated more than 250 men younger than herself since she turned 30, and claims it helps her keep young. Junie says that peers can't offer her what younger men give her because they have no idea how to date properly. "The age of the guys I date varies from 18 to 45 years. I get to know them in clubs, in grocery stores, in art galleries, at gas stations, and it's always the guy who flirts with me."
Junie has never been married, she has no children. "I've always dated younger people, but I've really focused on it since I was 30, and among the men I dated were guys 18-20 years old. Since then, I have never regretted. I have tried dating peers, but they are boring, bad in bed and, frankly, do not seek to please. In addition, after divorces, they return to free swimming and feel out of place. They missed a whole generation of changes in the field of novels," says the 54-year-old seductress.
Junie hastens to assure that she has not slept with all 250 guys she has dated. "I drank coffee with someone, just cocktails with someone, we went out to a party with others. I slept with some, and I had a long-term relationship with someone," the woman explains. She likes to have affairs in every sense of the word, but she would not like to be known as a woman of easy virtue.
Junie claims that she has a positive attitude to sex, but does not sleep with everyone in a row, despite the fact that most people think about this when they hear the word "predator". "It means I feel sexually attractive, I like to look good and enjoy sex with the right man, and I'm not afraid to talk about it. I like sex, but I need to have a relationship first."
The woman calls her approach to men very American and considers it normal to accept invitations to dinner, to a bar or on a date from three or four men a week. Dating younger men makes Junie feel young. "I have fun with them, I don't want children and marriage, and they help me keep fit. They know how to enjoy life."
Men often mistake Junie for a 30-35-year-old. According to her, men like her sense of humor and style, as well as the fact that she does not seek to marry and have children. "When you're a predator, you need to meet guys who initially know the rules of the game. One of the main rules is that the relationship will not be long, but we will enjoy each other's company, and most of this time is not related to sex." Junie says she likes youth music and TV shows and is young at heart.
The woman believes that the main secret of dating young and attractive guys is a friendly attitude: if you behave like a person who is open to communication, they will feel it. Therefore, she manages to frame men, even when she goes to bars and restaurants with married friends.
To maintain an attractive appearance, Junie eats right and trains three to four times a week. According to her, she is tired of people like her being called seducers of minors, while dating young girls for men is considered almost heroism. "For me, age is just a number. I'd be bored to death if I was dating someone my own age. I do not exclude the possibility of dating men of my own age or older, but the problem is that they do not know how to have fun, go on dates and often they have such baggage that their behavior in the bedroom and outside it is a hundred years out of date."
Junie is thinking about writing a guide to seducing young men or conducting seminars for mature women, since many are afraid to date young men. "They worry about labels and what other people will think. It's all nonsense to me. I have tried fashionable looks for going to the club, to parties, to a coffee shop and for dinner in a restaurant, which reduce decades, make me look younger and ready for adventure. After a hard day at the office or a stressful week, a fun date and dancing is what the doctor prescribed for people like me."
According to Junie, many women who get divorced in their 40s and 50s silently watch their ex-husbands marry young ones and try to date peers or older men. She advises them not to look for a long-term relationship, but to have fun and go on dates with young people, where it is not necessary to sleep with them or kiss, but you can feel young and attractive again.
In addition, Junie believes that older men should take lessons on how to care for women. She warns mature women against relationships with guys who want to practice, are looking for a sponsor or want a one-night stand. According to her, young guys often already have enough experience and look through women's magazines to better understand what women want.
Paradoxically, it is young girls who make young guys pay attention to more mature women. "Many guys have told me that their peers are only interested in how they look, who is wearing what and who weighs how much. They also say that young girls are so eager to get a boyfriend that they take off their underpants too quickly, and they are not very good in bed," the woman says.
Keywords: Age | Love | Relationship | Difference | Temptation