Recognition of lack of love: they got married, gave birth, had a boyfriend, but never likedPictolic
We often say the phrase "I love you" to your mate, relatives and even Pets. But if we invest in these words a deeper meaning?
Three British women openly told me she dated guys, married and have children, but still did not fall in love for real. Each of our heroines says that only after 30 comes the realization that feeling. Read on the sincere confession of lack of love.Talking about love does not mean to feel. The phrase "I love you" sounds so often that its true meaning is preserved. YouGov researchers claim that we genuinely use these words only three times in my life.
Three women who turned 30 years old, did through marriage, motherhood, and endless Dating, but never loved.
32-year-old nanny Leann Belfield (Nanny Leeanne Bilfield) from Hertfordshire now without a pair, but once a week Dating. She made over two hundred attempts tried relationships with men but have not yet met your soul mate. Each of the potential partners the girl immediately notice all the flaws and does not hold more than two months.
Nanny lived with her boyfriend for three years, but in retrospect, realizes that her ideas about true love was a delusion. The girl had a few more attempts at life together with men, but these novels were short-lived. She always felt that she feels more comfortable without a relationship.
Miss Belfield signed up on several Dating sites, but eventually deleted my account on Tinder because I was fed up with the contemplation of the same persons. Although she yearns for intimate relationships, but now feels great walking with three dogs.
30-year-old Kayleigh Hynes (Hynes Kayley) is a Finance officer at the housing Association. She lives in Newbury with eight-month-old son Frankie.
She met with the father of the child and considered him the perfect man. She thought that their relationship will grow into a family, but it turned out that it was only passion, not love. They had a great sex life, but less than a month, when Ms. Heinz decided to end the relationship. The girl did not know that managed to get pregnant by a former boyfriend.
A month after the breakup kaley felt that something was wrong and got a pregnancy test. The news of the pregnancy was a real shock. The woman reported the father of the baby, and he promised to be there, but never kept his word. All nine months Kaylee cried. Son born like his father.
The woman was supported by my parents, and she is happy that raising a wonderful son. This situation made her think about what love really is. Now her heart belongs only to the child but over time she hopes to meet her true soul mate.
33-year-old Michelle Lewis (Michelle Lewis) works as a head of Department and lives in Nottingham. The girl soon married. Father died when she was a teenager, and her mother was not interested in her daughter's life, so no one stopped Michelle, when she was suddenly getting married.
Three months later the girl could not stand the pressure from the spouse: she lacked personal space. Michelle realized that they are quite different. Although her husband doted on her and wanted kids, the young wife wanted to stand up, to be able to provide for their child, to give him a proper education and to give the comfort of home.
The pair tried to keep the family together for five years, but their marriage still fell apart. For four years Ms. Lewis met with several men, but in the relationship she was lucky: her new chosen people cheated and lied. Fortunately, it is not complex about his loneliness. The woman wanted to truly love, but is no longer going to tie the knot, because sincere feelings do not require proof on paper.True love is not to recognize at first sight. It can only confirm the time. But deep feelings don't purposely look for: it is better to develop them internally. If you create in my soul a space for love, it will come.
The results of a recent study by British experts have confirmed that "Domino effect" — one of the main reasons for 42% of divorces in the country. Say, if your friend obtains a divorce, then there is a 75% probability that you will follow his example. Three friends felt it in my own experience, when for two years in turn divorced.