How women themselves complicate their lives: 10 signs

Sometimes life is not as difficult as we think. It’s just that we do our best to turn every day into a test, and we don’t notice it ourselves. But it is enough to pay attention to just ten features of your behavior and perception of the world, as everything falls into place. Here's what they look like.

9 PHOTOS

1. Postponing for tomorrow

Classics of the genre. We keep promising to do something for ourselves later. Today is the last day (when I eat sweets / lie in bed for hours/smoke), and tomorrow I will definitely change. Well, okay, not tomorrow, but next month. Okay, but next year I will definitely change! Next year comes and we're still in bed eating cake. All we have been able to do during this time is to make the goal even more unattainable. And who is to blame?

2. Comparing ourselves to others

This problem has always been, and with the advent of social networks has become more pronounced. When every now and then you see different people, and you involuntarily try on their image for yourself and begin to compare. But we must remember that different Instagrams are just a picture, and we will never know the real state of affairs, so in every sense, it is better to focus on yourself and engage in self-development. It's more useful.

3. We try to help even when we are not asked

And most often we help not with actions, but with advice. And advice, even if it is given with the best of intentions, can only get in the way. In addition, if a person still fails, all the blame for what happened will fall on your shoulders. Do you need it? Let the person fill the bumps himself. That's when you are asked to help, then start.

4. We care about the opinions of others

Happy is he who can afford to do what he wants, regardless of the opinions of others. Of course, if it does not go against the criminal and administrative codes. Then yes, then we seriously risk complicating our lives.

5. We attribute bad intentions to others

Do not think of others as worse than they deserve. If someone does not respond to your message for a long time, this does not mean at all that he is ignoring you. If you were addressed by your full name, and not by a diminutive, it does not mean that the person began to treat you worse. You can think of a thousand reasons to accuse another of being unfair to you, but if you don't like something, just be honest.

6. We live in the past

We need the past only in order to learn from its mistakes. But to regret that once it was possible to act differently, and now everything would be different, is impossible in any case. You have already done what you thought was right. It was your decision, you got the result. So go ahead with your head held high.

7. We are always waiting for something

Speaking of the importance of conversations. Don't expect someone to understand you without words. If you want to receive something, just say so. No need to force others to guess on the coffee grounds about your desires. And wishes will not come true and spoil the relationship.

8. We always expect the worst

If you do not expect anything good from the world, then it will happen. Stop living like a stretched string and constantly being in tension. Happiness comes to those who are ready for it and open to it.

9. We don't ask for help

We can always handle everything on our own. Don't hesitate to help us. We'll figure it out without you. For what? Why refuse help if it will be easier with it? Just try one day to remove these shackles of independence from yourself, give yourself some slack and see how simple everything really is.

10. We judge others by ourselves

It's easier to say that in someone else's place, you would have done better. But even the game of thimbles looks elementary from afar until you take the place of a player who cannot guess where the ball is. We are all different, with different upbringings and backgrounds, so let's not teach each other what to do, and it will become a little easier for everyone.