How do representatives of 7 different nations behave on a date
According to the statistics of marriage agencies, every second interethnic marriage breaks up after five or six years of living together. As a rule, people just can't find a common language. But everything could have been different if women had carefully looked at their future husband on the first date.
Is it worth waiting for calmness from the Italians, generosity from the French and romance from the Germans? Why do the Swedes prefer extreme dating, and the Chinese will never give a lady a coat?
Passionate Italians
By the way, Italians are one of the most persistent suitors. If they liked a woman, then they will give her more and more new signs of attention, amaze the imagination with unusual declarations of love and crazy actions. As a rule, such tactics ultimately lead to a long-awaited victory.
Thrifty French
It's no secret that French men are now famous all over the world not only for their gallantry, but also for such qualities as thrift and practicality. What is their pragmatic attitude to gifts worth.
According to the OpinionWay center, 57% of the French are ready to resell "extra" presents this year. Most of all, the trade in second-hand gifts is flourishing among young people. 63% of French people aged 18 to 24 prefer to turn unnecessary gifts into money.
They also take care of women in a very practical way. Flowers are given rarely and in exceptional cases, as well as small unexpected gifts. The first date is usually scheduled in the morning or afternoon. A good opportunity, for example, to combine a lunch break with a romantic date. Of course, in France, the lady will pay for herself.
Practical Germans
It's just that women in Germany have become too emancipated. This is evidenced by the results of a study by the Allensbach Institute for the Study of Public Opinion. Almost two-thirds of men in Germany admitted that their compatriots have achieved full equality. 28% believe that emancipation has gone too far. 7% of Germans directly stated that they simply cannot behave like men, because such behavior is considered unacceptable.
However, it does not do without romance at all. Germans can also prepare a small gift as a sign of attention. However, without the beautiful packaging. They usually spend neither time nor money on making a gift in Germany.
Unforgettable Swedes
By the way, an active lifestyle is in the blood of Swedes in general. It is no coincidence that they were recognized as the most athletic nation. According to the Euromag agency, every seventh Swede is actively engaged in sports. 33% regularly visit fitness centers. And most of them are men.
But even if a woman fully shares the hobbies of a Swedish man, she should not count on an early marriage — at least for an official one. Divorce in Sweden is expensive, so couples prefer to live in a civil marriage. Moreover, their rights are exactly the same as those of registered spouses.
Impetuous Americans
Caring Japanese
Natalia from Khabarovsk (28 years old):
Temperament and passion are not about the Japanese. Especially in public. And it is difficult to understand whether he sincerely admires, for example, your taste in clothes or just pronounces the words of duty out of politeness. Besides, it is not customary for them to talk about their feelings. We were together for almost six months, but he never confessed his love. However, he showed his attention through actions - he gave expensive gifts, was very caring, always tried to feel my mood. I'm just going to ruin it, he's trying to cheer me up right away.
In addition, the Japanese are well-known workaholics. Mine worked 12 hours a day. So it's like this: he found time for a date - it means he has a serious interest in a woman. Especially if he meets after work and calls to see you next time. But I didn't dare to connect my life with a Japanese: I never learned to understand him.
Even if the Japanese did not like the date with the lady and he does not want to continue his relationship with her, he will still call her after the meeting, thank her long and hard for the evening spent, say compliments and many different pleasant words. And after a date, a Japanese man can call a woman who is not interested in him more than once. However, then he will still thankfully inform them that nothing will work out for them. Such seemingly illogical behavior is explained by simple politeness. In Japan, it is considered indecent to simply disappear and leave the lady alone with thoughts: "Why doesn't he call?"
Polite Chinese
By the way, Chinese men treat a woman with respect, but do not show many of the usual signs of attention. For example, it is not customary to give a woman a hand, help her put on a coat, open the door in front of her. Any touch to a strange woman is generally regarded as an insult. The roots of this behavior go back to the distant past. For a long time in China, it was believed that any touch to a woman obliges a man to connect his life with her. Nowadays, the usual emancipation has been added to the old tradition. Chinese women regard the usual signs of attention in our understanding as infringement of their rights.
Keywords: Woman | Man | Nationality | Relationship | Date