"Be on the alert!": 15 things you should definitely know about cheating
Cheating on a loved one is the worst thing that can happen in a relationship. Not everyone is able to forgive treason, just as it is possible to avoid such a development of events…
Why do men and women do this? With whom do they cheat most often? And what are the first signs that your partner is unfaithful to you? You will find answers to these and other questions in our material.
According to statistics, most often cheaters betray partners with their acquaintances, sometimes with common ones. They feel safe with these people because they are sure that no one will find out about their little secret.
Traitors who jump into bed with strangers for the sake of thrills are nothing more than the fruit of the stormy imagination of filmmakers. Of course, such situations also happen, but most often they have affairs on the side with close acquaintances. After all, it is even easier for them to explain the reason for a sudden breakup, "a friend will understand everything"…
Many people do not know, but there are different levels of treason and each person perceives it differently. For someone, "emotional" betrayal is much worse — when a partner begins to experience trembling feelings for another person. Some people, on the contrary, cannot forgive their lovers for physical intimacy with someone else, even if it is one innocent kiss.
It is best, when entering into a relationship, to immediately determine the "boundaries of what is permissible" so that in the future you will not face similar problems.
No matter what anyone says, but sex is one of the most important elements of any relationship, so if your partner does not get pleasure in bed, do not hesitate: soon he will either leave or start cheating on you.
According to a survey, people who simulate an orgasm are more likely to be willing to cheat on their partner. At the same time, men whose ladies moan furiously with pleasure during sex tend to remain faithful to them. It is not surprising, because next to them they feel like real "males", which is very flattering and warms up their self-esteem.
Surely, you have at least once met married couples who have passed together "through fire, water, copper pipes" and ... constant infidelity. Why do people stay together despite betrayal by a partner?
As a rule, they get so used to each other that they are just ready to close their eyes to "such a trifle". It is not uncommon when women or men themselves allow their significant other to "go left", if only they were happy.
As we wrote above, sex is a very important component of a relationship. But sex life is more important for men.
If a wife for some reason constantly refuses to satisfy her husband's carnal desires, there is a great risk that he will find solace in the bed of another. In addition, it undermines a man's confidence in your feelings — it is very difficult for him to understand how love can exist without sex, because in his mind these things are directly related to each other.
Not at all! To change, you don't have to feel unhappy! As a rule, most people are guided by banal curiosity or a desire to taste the "forbidden fruit".
Changing, a person very rarely thinks about the feelings of the second partner. His own emotions override thoughts about the pain that the beloved will experience when he learns about the betrayal. And this in most cases necessarily happens, because, as the proverb says, "everything secret, sooner or later, becomes clear."
Statistics show that most women cheat on their current partner in order to break off a relationship with him as soon as possible. It is very difficult for the fairer sex to gain the courage and tell about their desire to break up, so they do not come up with anything better than to "create" a reason for a major scandal.
In addition, women, as a rule, prefer to hide their dissatisfaction with the current state of affairs and hope that the man "will guess everything himself." Girls, don't do that! Some men are very bad at understanding hints, and they are not able to read your thoughts at all!
If you suspect your partner of cheating and want to take revenge on him by deciding on the same act, be prepared to face disappointment! Having changed for the sake of revenge, you will not feel the expected relief, but only cause yourself the same pain that you inflicted on your lover.
By this betrayal, you will only destroy yourself and forever "earn" the status of an unfaithful person.
What is worse when a partner cheats on you physically or emotionally? In fact, both are bad… But emotional betrayal means that a person's feelings have cooled down, he no longer feels comfortable with you, and he has found solace on the side.
It is not uncommon for people to meet with two partners at the same time, because with one of them, for example, "butterflies in the stomach" fly, and with the other - a calm and measured life that many married couples would envy. Such infidelities are especially dangerous, as they can last for months or even years…
Did you guess that social networks can also lead to treason? The "ideal lives" of users of the same Instagram make a very strong impression on some. Because of this, some people get jealous, because they don't live the same way. And over time - anger at his partner, who cannot provide them with the same "ideal life".
Do not believe the "beautiful picture", because you cannot know for sure what is hidden behind it.
Many cheaters really want to be "caught on the hot". So they no longer have to hide, cheat and feel guilty in front of their partner every time. As we said above, not everyone has the courage to admit this.
This applies to both women and men.
There is an opinion that during ovulation, women are much more inclined to change, since hormones are released in their body during this period. Allegedly, the body "signals" that it is ready for fertilization, therefore, without receiving the desired physical intimacy from her partner, the woman will go to look for her on the side.
Some women, in order to cope with the pressure of hormones, will simply fantasize about sexual pleasures. But there will also be those who will not be limited to fantasies alone ... At the same time, it does not mean that a woman consciously wants to get pregnant. This is how her body affects her.
Being in a relationship with several people at once, we begin to feel a constant rush of adrenaline, become more confident, liberated and playful.
Girls especially like confident guys who, on the first date, immediately take the initiative into their own hands and charm them in all possible and impossible ways. But for some reason, it does not occur to such ladies that since a young man behaves like this, it means that he has a huge experience in dating. And it is possible that even now, sitting at the same table with you, he is thinking about someone else…
If a man or woman does not adhere to the rules of hygiene, it may be unpleasant for their partner to make physical contact. Whether you believe it or not, and the lack of basic self-care can also cause treason. No matter how good a person is…
And it concerns not only personal hygiene, but also, for example, the order in the apartment. Do you remember how in one of the episodes of "Friends" Ross had to part with a very beautiful, sexy girl, because she was a terrible dirty girl?
Each person imagines love in different ways, but in general there are three "levels of love" that people experience throughout their lives.
At the first level, you feel a physical attraction to another person. On the second — romantic. The third level is characterized by the fact that attachment to a partner begins to form on it. Those who go through all these stages, as a rule, remain faithful to their beloved.
However, you can never know for sure what level your partner is at right now. Perhaps you are already making plans for the future and coming up with names for children, and he is just enjoying your company in bed.