5 female types that men try to avoid
Surprisingly, the same feminine quality can cause admiration and dislike in different men. Therefore, ladies complain about male logic almost as often as representatives of the stronger sex complain about female logic. But in fact, there is nothing strange and incomprehensible — the types that scare off grooms have long been defined and psychologist Andrey Nikolaev told reporters about them.
An expert in the field of psychology spoke about the five main types of women that men try their best to avoid. If you recognize yourself in one of them, then you urgently need to change something in this life!
Experience shows that this is the most undesirable type for a modern man. Such a woman is very domineering and constantly wants to lead everything around. She knows exactly how, when and why her companion needs to do something and completely manages his goals and desires.
Such "controllers" are formed in childhood, in families with a weak, weak-willed father. All her life, a woman of this type will treat men as individuals who are not capable of anything and look for a couple with a good potential of a"henpecked". The need for the second half to totally control the most scares men away. After all, most of them are sure that relationships should be built on mutual respect.
This type of woman also wants to control everything around, but, in addition, she also tries to play on men's territory. They can have truly masculine qualities and even be brutal. Usually these are tough businesswomen who have hypertrophied self-confidence, arrogance and even cruelty.
The favorite thing of such women is to demonstrate their own leadership qualities in all areas. Such ladies make men doubt not only their abilities, but even their masculinity. Of course, there are very few people who want to get involved with a person who will constantly "hurt" you and devalue you.
Such a woman is a ready victim, living for the sake of others and unable to fill herself with value. The stigma of uselessness was received by her as a child and she selflessly carries it through life, compensating for her rejection by selfless service to other people.
Most often, such selfless ladies come across spouses of tyrants and abusers. A man who does not have complexes and deviations will stay away from this option. How can you love a person who doesn't even love himself?
This is a person who once received a serious injury in a relationship with the opposite sex. She learned this lesson too well and now her motto is "all men are goats". Such a woman begins to show her essence already on the first date — she will be excessively restrained, wary and laconic.
The danger of such a companion is that she can hide her grievances for a long time, but sooner or later the moment will come when an explosion will occur and its consequences will be difficult to predict. Besides, is it possible to build a normal relationship with a person who, by default, considers you a goat?
At first glance, it may seem that there is nothing wrong with a woman who strives to do everything perfectly. But it is worth remembering that such a second half will require that it be matched. It is known that there are no ideal people, but this argument will not be taken into account.
You also need to remember that a woman who is an excellent student has the same idealistic mother, otherwise where would she get all her "points" from? A man will have to communicate with her, and this is not a rosy prospect at all.
Women are constantly worried about something, and the five types listed by us do it especially strongly. They respond to the main fears of their life, which are associated with the social environment and the conditions of upbringing. Those who are afraid of appearing weak want to appear courageous, those who are afraid of being rejected do not love themselves, and those who are afraid of mistakes try to do everything flawlessly. Fears are camouflaged by images, but men feel them subconsciously and try to avoid such women.
But even if the relationship did not work out, then you should not dive into long digs — start new ones as soon as possible! Anyway, somewhere there is a second half waiting for you, who will love you as you are.
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