10 things that infuriate almost all lovers during their life together
Often, when people are just starting a relationship, they don't even know what lies ahead. Living together seems to be something cloudless, happy and even fabulous, but the harsh realities make their own adjustments… Often, lovers have situations that act on their nerves and cause conflict. Why this happens, and what things can infuriate during the period of joint life, we wrote below.
Even people who are endlessly in love with each other can sometimes have a desire to be alone. But, unfortunately, this possibility is not always available… To avoid quarrels against this background, it is enough to talk to your partner and explain to him your desire to be alone. An adequate person will treat this with understanding, and so you both will have a little personal space.
Yes, yes, this can really be a problem! After all, everyone is used to pulling the blanket on themselves. We don't even need to explain how annoying it is. The way out is to buy a bigger blanket or even use two blankets to make everyone feel comfortable.
Sometimes it can irritate not the partner himself, but his friends or relatives, who are very brazen and defiant at a party, meddle in their own business and generally cause you only negative emotions. Don't be patient! Be sure to share your thoughts with the other half, and together you can find a compromise — perhaps he (or she) will start meeting with friends outside the house, and relatives will come much less often.
For someone to release gases in the presence of other people is the norm, and for someone even a simple belch after a delicious dinner is something out of the ordinary. If you don't like something about your partner's behavior, you'd better let them know right away. Sooner or later, patience may break.
When people start living together, their relationship moves to a qualitatively different level. But this does not mean that from this moment on you begin to belong to another person. Increased control on his part, jealousy, constant questions, checking the mobile phone, and so on can cause irritation. If you notice this behavior on the part of the second half, try to discuss the situation and decide whether you are satisfied with it.
Another problem that lovers often face is trying to change each other. You do not need to tell your partner how to live and what to do. You are already adults and everyone is able to make certain decisions on their own.
Long before the beginning of your life together, your partner has formed certain household habits, and scattered socks and dirty dishes can also be included in their list. Agree that you, for example, will wash the dishes, and your partner will take care of the timely laundry. The main thing is to choose the classes that you really like.
Are you an owl and your partner is a lark? Getting up early or late is another habit that has been formed over the years, so you can't change it in one day. It is best to accept and use the maximum time of general wakefulness, and in those periods when your partner is resting — just do not make noise and enjoy the outstanding privacy. Perhaps soon your chronotypes will synchronize, and you will fall asleep and wake up together.
Every joke about an unopened toilet lid has its share of a joke, everything else is true. Many girls are really annoyed when a young man forgets to lower the toilet seat behind him. Guys, on the contrary, can be annoyed that it has to be lifted all the time. You can also add an uncovered tube of toothpaste, hair in the bathroom, open cabinet doors, and so on. As in all other cases, you need to negotiate and find a solution. No need for unnecessary nerves.
The most important thing you need to remember is that your partner does not have telepathy! If you don't like something, don't wait for the other half to guess it-tell us. The ability to talk to each other heart-to-heart and discuss problems has saved more than one marriage.
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