Mutual dislike, divorce, awkward encounters and glances that haunts a couple after a breakup. Not too pleasant picture. What if we tell you, dear men, it's mostly just you have failed loving women?
Psychologist Justin Sunfarmer in his article tried to answer the question of what women want. Read this and your home life and married life will be better.
Given the numerous problems associated with the crisis in relations, absence of mutual understanding and incompatibility of men should know one thing. Women leave even those I love. And that's a fact.
It makes the girl suffer. Tearing her heart apart. Forces to hate and despise itself. But it's still happening. Sooner or later, the woman can leave the man she loves.
The kids, the house, property and capital – all this is a significant barrier for someone who already sees himself free.
Women destroy their families for various reasons. But one of them disturbs a partner most of all — her man is not around.
He was at work, fishing, camping, drinking beer with friends is all that matters. Even if he is away on urgent business, this is a blow to the strength of relationship.
In this matter the woman is selfish. There is no business, which is 100% justified by the fact that her man is not around.
This does not mean that a partner is bad or irresponsible. He may be attentive, attractive, sexually active. A man can establish a life and be a great father, the pillar of the family and still lose their women.
This possibility is not just scares them. Just the idea that she might be attacked, brings a woman to tears.
It is impossible to determine to assess such thoughts. Good or bad? Yes, a woman requires a lot, but it is not a thing and not an investment (sometimes men see my girlfriend that way). She has the right to impose conditions, clear and easily implementable.
A woman wants to feel intimacy. Passion. Not a desire or lust. My passion and life. The feeling that in this world there is someone who is always there for her.
Not content just to be in the same house or room. You need to feel the partner. Look, feel, and understand. It is important to be able to hear and right to remain silent.
Look at it differently. Try to see it in person. When she will pay attention to it, respond: "I look at you. Want to know who you are. After all these years, every day and every minute I want to know you, the real".
But this works only when man will understand that these thoughts are sincere.
Many partners make the mistake of seeing sex as purely a process of achieving pleasure. Worth a try to turn any touch into the mystery.
But the man is busy. Work, home, TV and beer in the fridge. Who said that a woman is a complex person? Nothing of the sort! Cooking, cosmetics, and manicures – that's the scope of its interests, isn't it?
So what does a woman want? For the most part, the answer to this question is one that her man was nearby.