There would be no happiness, but misfortune helped: women who have become more beautiful and happier thanks to parting with exesBy Pictolic https://pictolic.com/en/article/there-would-be-no-happiness-but-misfortune-helped-women-who-have-become-more-beautiful-and-happier-thanks-to-parting-with-exes
Pain and disappointment after the breakup of a relationship exhaust and torment the soul for a long time. But the void can be filled with positive changes, not sweets and alcohol. Three British women have grown fat to an outrage, suffering after unsuccessful novels. Along with the kilograms, women accumulated complexes, and only the abrupt finale of the relationship helped them wake up and transform themselves beyond recognition. Read about women's victories over their fears and overweight in our material.Most women eat sweets with disappointment and resentment after parting with their exes, but these ladies decided to act differently. Charlotte, Alexa and Suzy was told how the breakup of the relationship became a motivation for them to transform.
48-year-old Alexa Whitten from He lives in Portsmouth with his 14-year-old son Oliver. The woman weighed 140 kg and wore size 56 clothes with a height of 1.85 m. She felt unhappy not only in her body, but also in her personal life. At that time, the woman understood that her 8-year romance with Paul was nearing the end. The couple lived in different cities and could not move in together because of the children left over from previous marriages. They were hindered by distance, in addition, Alexa constantly struggled with complexes and self-doubt.
Intimate relationships have lost their spark, and fullness has become a physical barrier, as a result, the British woman has completely lost the joy of life. When they first met Paul, the woman weighed 100 kg and wore size 48 clothes. Over time, Alexa began to get fat, carried away by fast food and wine. Stress after quarrels, she ate sweets or poured alcohol over the grief. In March 2018, the fat woman realized that she could not continue like this.
The single mother started going to the gym three times a week, doing swimming and running. She counted calories without exceeding the daily norm of 1600 kcal. Fruit for breakfast, a light lunch and dinner helped her lose the hated pounds. Alexa stopped drinking wine on weekdays, allowing herself only one glass on the weekend. She liked the process of changing her appearance for the better. When sadness came over her, the woman remembered Paul and she wanted him to see her changed and understand who he had lost.
Since May 2018 , Alexa has dropped 45 kg . Now she wears size 44 — 46 clothes and weighs 89 kg. She feels great, but continues to work on strengthening muscles by training in the gym, and plans to try herself in 2020 in triathlon.
The story with the former lover did not end there. A year later, the woman wrote to him and sent him a photo. Paul was shocked to see how she had changed. They continued to communicate, although they still live separately. Alexa says she has finally conquered her inner demons and felt the joy of life again. The old passion returned to the couple's relationship, a new happy chapter began in their romance.
34-year-old Suzie Jafar (Suzie Jafar) brings up a 5-year-old daughter Katie and lives in Hertfordshire. After her divorce from her husband, she suffered from excess weight, constantly suffocating on the move. In October 2017, her husband Tom left her. The woman weighed 89 kg and wore size 50 clothes with a height of 1.57 m.
My sister suggested that Susie start working out at the gym. And although at that time the priority for the woman was to restore her shattered self-confidence, and not lose weight, she decided to go to classes. Physical education helped her to distract from sad thoughts.
In 2013, when the woman got married, she weighed 64 kg. After the birth of her daughter, she began to gain weight. Susie suffered from postpartum depression and did not want to leave the house, shutting herself off from the outside world. She was very lazy, stopped cooking and constantly ordered fast food. The Briton ate up bitter feelings with harmful sweets from the fact that her marriage was falling apart before her eyes.The couple began to quarrel often. The fuller a woman became, the more her weight affected the relationship with her husband. She no longer felt confident and sexy, and her mood became as unsatisfactory as her self-esteem. The couple met in 2008 and hesitated for a long time before starting a family. The marriage was preserved thanks to the child, but in September 2017 Tom could not stand it and left. He said that he was tired, did not love his wife and did not want to restore relations.
After her husband's departure, the stress and anxiety accumulated in Susie's soul reached the limit. Family and friends supported her as much as they could, but only training in the gym helped to cope with depression. The woman went to classes five times a week, and her mother looked after her little daughter at that time. The exercises became an opportunity for Suzy to shed negative emotions. The woman's life began to change. The British woman switched to proper nutrition, only occasionally indulging herself with a glass of wine or sweets. She did not set herself goals to lose weight, but just wanted to improve her well-being.
From time to time, Susie saw Tom when he came to see his daughter. She wanted him to see who he had lost. Her ex-husband complimented her, but the woman realized that she became happier without him. Now the British woman weighs 57 kg and wears 42 — 44 clothing size. She managed to regain her former seductive forms. Now the woman feels great and wants to keep her body in good shape in the future.
Susie understands that if it wasn't for the divorce, she would continue to eat stress, getting fat and suffering from health problems. The woman is happy and full of energy, having changed beyond recognition. The British woman says that she has now become the best version of herself physically and emotionally, and wants to be an example for her daughter.
25-year-old Charlotte Thomas lives with her family in Merseyside. According to her, ignoring ex—boyfriend Jack is the best thing that happened in her life. Since he left her in October 2017, the girl has lost 21 kg, started building a new career and now feels better than ever.
The young people met on Tinder in 2016. The first three months of the relationship were just wonderful, but then the guy started making caustic remarks to Charlotte about her figure. At that time, she weighed 85 kg with a height of 1.68 m and wore size 48 clothes. During the year of the relationship, the girl gained another 6 kg, often eating fast food and eating cookies. Charlotte hated her body and tried to hide it under dark shapeless outfits. The British woman did bright makeup to distract attention from her curvy forms. Jack constantly pointed out her completeness in quarrels and said that she should be grateful that he was still staying with her.Charlotte's self-esteem has dropped to a critical level. One day she discovered that her boyfriend was texting with other girls on a dating site. It morally killed her. Jack wasn't even going to make excuses and explain something, so the British woman just left his house and never saw him again. The girl's heart was broken, and her life seemed broken. Charlotte realized that something needed to be changed urgently and decided to get out of the "comfort zone".
The British woman left her job as an accountant and went to Wales for a year to work as an animator at the camp. There she started working out at the gym several times a week and going to the beach every day. The new job was very active, the girl ate healthy food, not fast food.
During the month and a half spent in the camp, Charlotte managed to lose more than six kilograms. Her body has become more elastic, she has updated her wardrobe to show off her toned legs to everyone. Now the girl wears size 44 — 46 and weighs 64 kg. She returned to her former place of work in the office, but continues to work as an animator in summer camps and perform at holidays. The British woman tries to eat right and is not sad about the fact that she has not yet found a new love. Charlotte is grateful to fate for being able to become better and more confident after breaking up with her boyfriend. She won't let anyone hurt her anymore.
There would be no happiness, but misfortune helped. Sometimes the pain of disappointment becomes an impetus for positive changes in life. For three British women, the bitter end of the relationship was the beginning of a new page on which they write a happy story of love for themselves and for the world.
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