The first time is not ecstasy? Three women told when and how they lost their virginity

The first sex is the most exciting. Unfortunately, it does not always meet expectations. Many girls remain disappointed and even regret that they gave themselves to the wrong man, or did it too soon. Three British women openly told about their first sexual experience. It happened differently for each of them, but they all made conclusions about when it is better to make love for the first time.Studies prove that more than half of women lose their innocence before they are ready for it. It's all the fault of naivety and the desire to keep up with friends who have had sexual experience. Only some decide to wait for a special moment with a decent man.

From "too soon" to "no regrets": three ladies openly talked about their first sexual experience.

30-year-old Hadley lives in London. She decided to sleep with her boyfriend Adam when she got jealous of other girls at school. The first time the girl happened when she turned 15 years old. Then she was in the 10th grade. Before Adam, Hadley had only kissed a few guys. She was a little confused by the fact that most of her peers had already had sexual experience, and she was still a virgin.

The girl's first serious relationship began in 2005. Adam was one of the most popular guys, older by a year, and seemed kind and smart to her. Hadley constantly wanted to impress him, because at school he was embarrassed by their affair. And it was very upsetting for the girl.

The young men kissed, but it didn't go any further, although Hadley knew that the boyfriend wanted to have sex. Adam didn't push her. One day at school, a girl noticed another flirting with him. She wanted to do something to keep him. So Hadley decided to sleep with her lover. The girl invited him to her house when his parents were not at home, and everything happened to them.

It turned out that Adam is also a virgin. It all lasted a few minutes. The guy was very embarrassed, quickly dressed and left. After that, their relationship completely deteriorated. They corresponded a little more, but the boyfriend flatly refused to discuss what had happened between them. Both told their friends about their first sexual experience, so soon the whole school knew that they had slept together.

In 2007, when the girl turned 17, she entered college. There Hadley started dating Tom. The young people slept together three months after the beginning of the relationship, but discussed everything before going to bed. Hadley felt completely different this time. Growing up, she began to appreciate the sexual experience with her boyfriend. A woman wants her children to be honest with her and not start having sex too early. She hopes that her child's first time will be better than hers.

27-year-old Sarah Hallows from Colchester waited a long time for the right moment and lost her virginity at the age of 25. Most of her friends started their sex life from the age of 15, but the girl decided to wait for the "right" guy.

Sarah's mother was a strict Catholic, so they didn't talk about sex in the house. She discussed intimate topics with her friends, who were surprised at her abstinence. For the first time the girl kissed at the age of 18, but she was waiting for a decent man for a long time. She concentrated on her studies and work, and her personal life was in the background. Sometimes Sarah went on dates, but she did not start a serious relationship. Her strict principles helped to divide guys into two categories: those who only needed sex, and those who aspired to something more.

A British woman lost her virginity at the age of 25. She was invited to a party where she met Mike. A tall, handsome guy immediately liked the girl. A spark lit up between them, and Sarah realized that the right moment had come. Since the party was held at her best friend's house, where she could safely stay, the girl decided to spend the night with a new acquaintance.

Sarah confessed to Mike that she had never been with a man before. He treated it with understanding, calmed her down and did everything to make her enjoy it. Despite the fact that their communication after the first night did not last long, the British woman does not regret anything.A few months later, she met John, with whom she really fell in love. Despite the fact that Sarah was no longer a virgin, she slept with a new boyfriend only after the seventh date. The young people were together for six months. After this affair, the girl had another relationship. Now she is single, but claims that becoming a woman has gained a lot of self-confidence. Sarah is glad that she was waiting for the right moment and, unlike many of her girlfriends, does not regret anything.

28-year-old blogger Alice Riley lives in Reading. The British woman always wanted her first time to be special.

In adolescence, the girl was modest and very shy to communicate with guys. At the age of 18, she entered the university. New friends wondered why Alice wasn't interested in one-night stands. She met guys at parties, but she was waiting for a decent man to fall in love with. Sometimes the girl felt lonely, but over time she became convinced of the correctness of her decision, seeing how badly guys sometimes treat her friends.

After graduating from university in 2012, Alice started registering on dating sites. The girl has not yet met her only one, although she has been on several dates. When the British woman indicated in her profile that she was a virgin, she began to receive unpleasant messages from lustful men who wanted to become her first.

Since November 2016, Alice has started a blog, including several posts about her virginity. Family and friends support the girl, but sometimes she is attacked by trolls. After publishing the post in Twitter that sex should be something meaningful, she was bombarded with angry comments by users who disagree with this point of view. But Alice did not delete the record and continued to defend the right to express her own views, even if others do not like it.Now the British woman is 28 years old, and she still remains a virgin. Despite the fact that the girl often feels the pressure of others, she is not going to change her own principles. Alice is confident in her beliefs and continues to wait for a decent man.

Some girls manage to turn the loss of innocence into a bargain. A 19-year-old Ukrainian woman sold her virginity for a million euros and as a result received an offer to get married.