Judgments, regrets and 10 more things that exude our energyPictolic
Each person is endowed with a special energy that attracts into his life those events that he really wants. It is the energy potential that determines whether a person is healthy or not, feels cheerful or sluggish, happy or dissatisfied with life…
Everyone has their own energy level, and there are different ways to fill it. But we want to talk about those actions by which people unconsciously exude the reserves of their spiritual resources. And we are sure that you make many of them every day.
As a rule, our fears are not supported by anything other than our own fantasies. Being afraid of the supposed failures and dangers, a person loses the opportunity to advance to his dreams. "What if it doesn't work out?", "What if they will laugh at me?", "What if no one likes it?" — he thinks. But you can find out the answer only by trying.
Many people work at an unloved job, live with unloved people and every day they are immersed in thoughts about how unhappy their life is. At the same time, they do not even think about changing something, and the solution lies on the surface!
There is no need to regret what has already been done — you will not return the lost time! But with each new regret, you start to feel like a bigger loser.
The same applies to the moments when a person draws an ideal image in front of him, but the reality does not meet his expectations and, accordingly, causes sadness and all the same regrets.
It is impossible to be always right. And why would you do that? Think about it, is it really that important? Learn to admit that you are wrong and lose in disputes, and life will become much easier.
All the boundaries are in our head. We forbid ourselves to wear certain clothes, we are afraid to seem stupid or ridiculous in public, and we do not do things that we would really like, but "it's not supposed to be like that".
It is natural for a person to make mistakes, and no one has the right to blame him for this. But manipulators quite often only do this. After all, experiencing a sense of guilt, a person becomes very malleable and ready to do anything just to redeem it sooner. But he is not obliged to do this.
Following from the rule above, you also have no right to blame and condemn someone. It is no secret that judging others for something, a person actually condemns his own shortcomings, the presence of which he is afraid to admit.
A full wardrobe, a house filled with appliances, new-fangled gadgets, dozens of pairs of sneakers and expensive jewelry will not be able to make you happy. Therefore, you should not go on about the demon of consumerism, but it is better to buy only those things that you really need.
This will not only help you free up space from everything superfluous, but also allow you to save money. However, refusing to buy, you do not need to go to extremes, like, for example, this woman named Amanda. For eight months, she ate only scraps, and with the money she saved, she went on a trip.
Anxiety is somewhat similar to fear, but it manifests itself even more often. The main thing you need in such situations is to exhale, relax and accept the fact that you can't control everything in the world.
You can blame others for everything, but it is unlikely that this will somehow help solve your problem. Remember that only you are responsible for your own life — not your husband, not your mother, not teachers, and not even the state. Accept this fact and start managing events yourself.
Sometimes pleasant memories so absorb a person that he literally falls out of reality and begins to live in the past. But it's time to come to terms with the fact that you can't return time, and life does not stand still.
No matter how much you want, but changes are inevitable, so be able not to get attached to things, not to get hung up and adapt.
How often people turn to various "gurus" for help, hoping that they will somehow magically change their lives in a matter of seconds. And when this does not happen, they again experience disappointment, fear of the uncertainty of the future and the feeling that they were deceived.
In fact, no one can change your life, except yourself. And this is an axiom that you need to accept, take responsibility for yourself, and life will become better.