"I'm afraid of your children": how not to become a pedophile in the eyes of the publicBy Pictolic https://pictolic.com/en/article/im-afraid-of-your-children-how-not-to-become-a-pedophile-in-the-eyes-of-the-public
Recently, Omsk journalist Alexander Zubov expressed his opinion about the scandalous arrest of a coach from Yekaterinburg, accused of pedophilia. Then the main proof of the man's atrocities was a video in which he was just sitting next to the girl on the same sofa.
At the same time, the schoolgirl told her parents that the coach allegedly showed her his penis and even masturbated, but these moments are absent on the video. Moreover, everything happened in a crowded place, so the fact that no one else noticed the masturbating man is doubtful.
Let's find out what the correspondent thinks about this NGS55.RU Alexander Zubov. It is worth noting that the majority of Internet users have already agreed with his opinion.
Alexey in the courtroom
The situation occurred in November 2017. Alexey had a break between workouts. He was sitting on the couch in the hallway and filling out a personal training log. A 7-year-old girl who skipped a class at a school of young models sat down next to her. In the evening, she told her parents that Alexey touched her, and then took off his pants and showed his penis. Later, the girl decided that her uncle was only masturbating — according to investigators, the coach hid the movement of his hand with a folder.
Video from the club's surveillance cameras
What do we see when watching the video from the club's surveillance cameras? Alexey is doing his job, and a bored girl is sitting next to him, who clearly does not know what to do. She doesn't even look at the coach, although the sight of an adult man masturbating must have attracted the girl's attention: arouse interest, fright, at least some kind of reaction.
The club is crowded, someone passes by, the coach greets some. Maybe he's a pervert? But any sexologist will tell you that the essence of perversion is the fear of being caught, and not an obvious provocation. No one notices how he "masturbates", and Alexey himself, as an employee of the club, clearly needs to know where the cameras are. He is a respected athlete in the gym, husband and father — at the same time, he is not embarrassed by the fear of being caught for this at work and the subsequent "glory". Why didn't the girl leave?
Alexey and his wife
Half of Yekaterinburg is outraged by the situation, and my outburst of anger could be seen from space. The hysteria around pedophilia has already acquired a huge scope, and such cases only throw firewood into the furnace.
Not so long ago, two cases occurred in Omsk when girls of eight and nine years old came up with the idea that men were molesting them on the street. In the first case, the child simply invented a story with an "uncle", and in the second, the man decided to find out the address of the house from a passing girl, and she later told her parents that he wanted to drag her into the car.
Orientations with the poor man's face flew around all social networks, people promised to "find and punish", and later the girl confessed to lying. Such accusations always leave a trail, even after the acquittal — the photo on which it says "PEDOPHILE" will not be forgotten soon, and someone might not see the refutation. The People's Court is quick on the hand.
Returning to the story with the coach, someone will ask how a 7-year-old girl can know about masturbation? For some it will be a revelation, but many children know a lot of things that their parents do not guess. What we used to learn in the yard from the "starshaks" is now at hand — on the smartphone screen, while the answers to all questions are clear. Do you know exactly what your child is interested in?
A frame from a video recording
Not so long ago, Diana Shurygina was a hype for the whole country, whose history is now known to both old and young. For many, this girl has become a role model and a model of how you can get your share of fame. Well, in the end — it's a great excuse: "Mom, I wasn't in class because my uncle touched me." That's it. Nothing else is needed — the bloodshot eyes of mom and dad, a statement to the police, a story in social networks and a desire to kill commentators, a show on Channel One.
Parents and society will do everything themselves. Here you have an excuse from school, and attention, and if the deception is revealed — what is the demand from the child? Well, I got confused, I was scared. The coach is also good himself! I thought of it, a jock, sat down with a child on the same sofa!
Officially, I am afraid of children.
I remember how I practiced on the uneven bars in the summer on the street. Gradually, a flock of children aged 7-9 gathered around me. Boys and girls jumped after me on the bars and horizontal bars and asked me to teach them to pull up. I helped without a second thought, supported my waist, joked. The kids were having fun too.
Children love me, despite my appearance
The next morning I came back, the children were already there, and I, like Leo Boniface, continued training again. But then, pulling myself up, I noticed in the window of a neighboring house a disapproving stern look of a woman about 40 years old.
I looked at the situation from the side — an adult dark-skinned man with a beard in a crowd of children teaches a girl to pull up, supporting her by the waist. It's strange that I wasn't torn apart by horses on the first day. I said goodbye to the guys and left. I continued to train elsewhere.
There is another story with a pensioner I know. The man loved children very much and always carried sweets in his pocket — he treated the kids in the yard and transport. He did it in those good times when it was normal. And now imagine if they tell you now that a gray-haired man in a coat and hat treated a child to candy? The association will work, right? And orientations and posts will fly.
"Yazhemateri" are constantly on guard and believe that everyone wants to offend their child, although it's time to protect men from children. What used to be in the order of things has now been turned into a sur. In the West, by giving a woman a hand, you risk being accused of harassment, in Russia, by asking a child for a house number, you become a pedophile. So keep your children with you, I'm afraid of them.