Dissecting dreams: why we dream of sex, horror and gone from our lives peoplePictolic
The famous psychiatrist Carl Gustav Jung believed that our dreams are messages we sent to our unconsciousness. Analytical psychology is looking for ways to decipher this information and, if you believe the experts in the field, have already achieved serious results.
Psychologist Daria Milay told reporters that can mean dreams that cause us confusion often.
We can confidently say that dreams are our secret world accessible only through the embrace of Morpheus. In this world there are practically no limits and we can meet people who with us are long gone, fantastic animals and unusual phenomena contrary to the laws of physics and logic.
Dreams often have a negative connotation — we may quarrel, fight and even kill. This may mean that the person rejects aggression, but in sleep, the negative feelings are released. So psyche frees people from the risk of a nervous breakdown or psychosis.
It works and intimate experiences, including bisexual. In the dream, make wishes and dreams that you never dare to make in real life. In the dream, all this can be overcome quickly and clearly, without the slightest risk to themselves.
But we must remember that to interpret dreams clearly not. Jung argued that the semantic field of dreams is always wider than the individual frames of a person. In the dream world can appear the images from fairy tales, myths and legends heard in childhood. However, even the most unusual scenes of our unconscious gives meaning to the language of images and symbols to convey their messages.
That's why Daria Milay not advised to apply to the dream books, because dreams are very individual and for different people the same dream can have the opposite meaning. One seen in a dream the Mare will be the symbol of power and personal growth, and another to represent something frightening and incomprehensible.
It happens and most intimate dreams. They may mean not sex, but, for example, the adoption itself, or certain personal qualities. A dream in which a woman enters into a relationship with a rich man may symbolise the fact that she tries on some masculine qualities such as courage and determination. A businessman may just be the embodiment of these traits.
Sexual experience with a woman for ladies, conversely, can say that she wants to try on more feminine look, which many people today had to leave because of the peculiarities of modern life.
Do not be afraid of the dreams in which dead people close to you. Very often, this dream means only your separation from this person. It is possible that a connection or even a close relationship with him will be broken, and, on the contrary, is the access to a new level of understanding.
You can have dead people and serious change. They seem to tell us that one stage of our life is completed and you have to be ready for the new. A dying child, according to Jung, means that your inner child is deprived of something. This is connected most often with treats and creative sector.
If you dream you kill someone, it matters the sex of the person. This image can be related to your male or feminine and does not bear any criminal or bright negative connotation.
Dreams with nightmares usually reflect our fears formed in childhood. Often in dreams a person is in a place where he experienced a lot of horror or where there has been shaking his event. If such dreams often, it is possible to go to a therapist that will help to distinguish the sensory component, that is, will determine the dream causes fear, hatred or sadness. You can then find a way of getting rid of Intrusive nightmare.
If the messages our unconscious understood, it may be possible to use them? Daria Milay sure that this is possible. The practice of lucid dreaming helps to get such signals and use them in real life. In order to use the information from the sleep, you need to go to bed with a clear objective — what question you want to answer.
Before going to bed to put at the head of a pencil and paper to awake immediately record what he saw. Unfortunately, dreams tend to evaporate quickly and there is always the chance of missing something important. Sleep you need to burn as he passed, avoiding speculation and attempts to rationalize what he saw.
Please note that our unconscious speaks to us in the most primitive way, like a child 3-5 years old, using simple words and simple concepts. It is important to record not only the dream but also its state of waking. Curiosity, excitement, fear, anger — these emotions are very important for the interpretation of messages.
Sometimes, analyzing a dream, it is useful to perform the last 7-10 days of his life, because at this time could have happened something that has become a trigger for dreaming. Do not forget that sometimes seen us in a dream may signal serious mental health problems.