As the body gives us? What I can tell eyes, mouth, hands, and neckPictolic
Specialist in nonverbal communication, Joe Navarro is confident that even the most notorious liar you can bring clean water, watching his body language. And in this he is right, because no one is able to fully control her facial expressions and gestures. Easy squint, blink a lot, the awkward twist of the body — all of it indicates the person's attitude to you and his true mood.
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"The eyes are the mirror of the soul" is an expression familiar to everyone. Made it up not just because even the most calm people in a critical situation, changing facial expression and look.
If in conversation with your interlocutor eyes, it's not sleepy — just tired of his conversation. Easy squint may indicate the dissatisfaction that the person is trying to hide. But if it often blinks, most likely, beside you he's uncomfortable. Perhaps he is experiencing unpleasant emotions worrying about something or feels helpless.
If one squinted a little, but smiling, he is genuinely glad that you said, or just makes you warm feelings.
An unconscious desire to cover up the neck — an indication that the person aspires to protect yourself. He's scared, under stress, but probably tries to hide it.
If you notice that the other person put her hand or fingers on the jugular, try to show concern towards him. Your partner feels helpless. Ask how he's doing, if everything was okay with the work.
If the person unconsciously touches the upper chest, he suffers from anxiety. Most often such a signal is inadvertently serving girls, if their burdens some problem.
Slightly parted lips, especially when combined with the eyes wide open speaks to the fact that the other person is indifferent to you. Quite possibly, he was not averse to a drink with you a Cup of coffee in an informal setting.
But tightly compressed lips is a bad sign. This signal indicates that the interviewee finds difficult to answer or angry the question. Obviously, he'll try to equivocate or lie to you.
If your child is working, the diligence of sticking the tip of your tongue, or leads them along the inside of your cheeks, know that he works on the conscience. This signal means that the person is completely absorbed in the process.
If in conversation the interlocutor actively gesturing, trying to explain or Supplement their words with gestures — he's truly passionate about. And that meager movement and hidden it in my hands say.
Also on the person's attitude to you can specify how it sits. If the person puts his hands on the table, the conversation gives him pleasure. Keeps hands close to him — so, said talk business or don't want to open up to you.
Hands in the pose of "house of cards" is a powerful message to others. The man is confident, clearly knows what he's talking about, and confusing it will be difficult.
If the person is relaxed and feels comfortable, his posture will be the most free. Slightly turned to the body you suggests that the interviewee is genuinely interested. If he is straight, but tries to hide the hand and precise control of the movement, then he's hiding something, and, perhaps, disingenuous.
The ability to notice non-verbal signals of the body is the real talent. To learn this difficult, but this does not mean that it is not worth trying. Looking at the source more closely, you will always be able to understand what he was thinking. In addition, knowledge of gestures can be useful in some professions, for example, flight attendants. However, they thus represent dishes on the menu, but it's still very interesting.