5 surefire steps to win a girl's heart on first datePictolic
Many men naively believe that if a girl agreed to go with them on a date, the key to her heart already in the bag. In fact, the first meeting is a sort of "qualifying round". To get to the next step, you'll have to charm his lady and please her on this day the most positive emotions.
How to do it? Read below for detailed instructions.
Wear a costume
Men in suits — business, successful and rich. At least that is the impression one gets from most women. Even if you've never worn a suit, even if you have to rent one, do it! Come to the first date in the pants and the jacket. Too much official is not necessary, no tie and a butterfly, but a jacket and a clean, sparkling shoes is a must.
Tip: better take a sponge for shoes. There is a risk that your shoes are dirty and it would mess up the overall impression.
By the way, there is a perception that women always measure a man by his shoes. If you come on a date in old running shoes, which usually run in the mornings, unable to turn around and go back.
Select a suitable location
It is best to take a girl out to a restaurant or café. The romantic atmosphere will contribute to a pleasant conversation, delicious meals — lift your spirits and light alcoholic drinks — is a bit more at ease getting to know each other.
If you lead a girl to the movies, there is a risk that the film she does not like. A walk in the Park for a first date is not suitable a priori. Extreme entertainment, especially, will appreciate not every lady. Therefore, a restaurant and a cafe — the best option. It is not necessary to go to a noisy restaurant — select to meet friendly and quiet place where you will feel comfortable to communicate.
Tip: when a girl says: "What a lovely place!" (and she will surely say so), tell them you come here often alone or with friends. In case your companion may think that it is your "den" for meetings, and instead spend your time is to fantasize, how many girls before her were here.
Be generous! Women love generous men, even if they say that "money is not the main thing". When a man is willing to spend, not counting every penny, women just melt! Believe me!
And most importantly, do not skimp on the tip. If the account seems too large — just take it easy. If the lady will notice that you are surprised, shocked or even upset, most likely, the evening may be over, and on the second date can not even count.
Tip: even generosity should be in moderation! Do not overdo it, otherwise the girl will see you as a spender, which also has a negative impact on further developments.
Tell her compliments
No wonder they say that women love with their ears. It is! Ladies love it when they make compliments, but even this issue should be approached wisely. Banal compliments like "You're beautiful today" your companion is likely to just ignore it. The same applies to "simulated" compliments such as "you and I in Paradise" or "beside you my heart melts".
Best of all, if what you say would apply to any of the details in her appearance and manner. "You have very graceful hands", "I like how playful the strand out of your hair" and so on.
Advice: in no case do not compare her with other women, even in a positive way. Don't talk about them at all! On a first date for you there is only one lady, and she sits opposite.
Make a surprise
But this will be the "final blow" in winning the hearts of girls! Pretend you need to step back for a minute and come back to it with a bouquet of beautiful flowers. All girls just love surprises, so believe me, such a seemingly small and simple gesture she'll appreciate.
At the end of the evening invite his companion to make a joint selfie. If she agrees — all, you can consider it yours! Just not necessary in the day to upload pictures to the network and change relationship status to "a friend". Be shrewd and unhurried, wait for a while, and she will go around blabbing to everyone you know that she has a new "Oh, what a cool" boyfriend.
And what "chips" are using you to make a good impression on a first date? Share in the comments.