10 mistakes of a woman in a relationship ... What should not be done?By Vika https://pictolic.com/en/article/10-mistakes-of-a-woman-in-a-relationship-what-should-not-be-done
1. Talk about your shortcomings in front of a man. It is a huge mistake to consider your soul mate as a “girlfriend” and complain to him about your appearance. In fact, men do not focus on small details, whether it is stretch marks or a couple of extra pounds. Let him think that everything is fine with you. Men love women who love themselves. Remember!
2. Continuing the theme of appearance. If your chosen one forgives you to change something in appearance, it is worth considering. Yes, women love to change and try to constantly emphasize their beauty. But if a man tells you to lose weight, dye your hair, or even worse - “increase/decrease” something - this is clearly not your man. No need to go ahead and just walk away.
3. Excessive independence. Men are by nature miners and conquerors. And when a beloved woman says “I myself, I myself” all the time, he may get the impression that he is not needed. Or even stop feeling like a man next to such a “strong independent”. Feel free to ask for help (even with small things) - men love it very much!
4. Always suspect a man. Everyone has a past, there's no getting away from it. Each of you is a free person in one way or another. And excessive control can only hurt. Take care of yourself more, less bad thoughts in your head. If you are already completely unbearable, talk. Communication is the key to all troubles.
5. Constantly forgive insults. Women are by nature very patient. However, there are those who step over themselves. Relationships are the work of two. Both must give and receive. If your chosen one constantly “mows” and treats you badly, you don’t need to endure. Perhaps you should say "no" to such an alliance.
6. One of the typical mistakes of all women is to dissolve in the chosen one! When a woman is in love, no one else exists for her. And that's okay... at first. Later, if you lose and forget about your personal interests, you can "strangle" your man. The fact is, the more you take care of yourself, and develop, the more interesting your soul mate. Don't ignore your desires!
7. Always prove your case. Women are emotional natures. Often men after the conflict consider the issue closed. However, there are women who, by all means, want to prove that they are right, and so on. Why is this needed? Think about what is more important to you in a relationship. No need to dig and find out something.
8. Compare your man with your ex. A very gross mistake. After all, in a fit of quarrel/anger, you can say so much too much ... Yes, we are all not perfect and make mistakes. "You're like my ex!" - a fatal phrase that can crack your relationship. Let go of the past, no one likes comparisons.
9. Turn off the "saw" mode. When a man constantly listens to claims addressed to him, sooner or later he will simply run away. You can calmly talk and ask for what you want. No need to be with your favorite "gloomy grandmother." People are drawn to positive people. Looking for the good in relationships.
10. Don't take relationships for granted. Happiness is a complex thing. Every person wants to be loved, appreciated and cared for. Relationships are joint work, the basis of which is the trust and respect of a partner. And maybe some casualties. You can’t take each other for granted, and think that being together is everything and will be forever. Everyone must evolve and move forward to create space for growth and love.